Today morning as I woke I had a strange Idea. Yesterday being the last working day of the month my salary had been credited to my account.To my surprise I found a six digit figure as my balance . I guessed that some bonus and some shift allowance was added to my regular salary and so it showed that big amount. I was quite pleased with myself añd decided to maintain the balance atleast for a day. You all are familiar with the concept of fasting. Most people fast on auspicious days. They spend the whole day on fruits and milk. They don't eat cooked food till they complete their fasting. I thought why not we do 'spent' ing. that is not to spend even a single rupee the whole day. "Spent_ing " a nice word coined by me. I smiled at myself at this strange word.
I decided that I should not take a single rupee from my pocket whatever the reason be. I knew it was little difficult to keep this but I thought I would be strong enough to try not to spend a penny . As I was thinking on these lines my wife came to me and asked me the reason for my absentmindedness. I narrated the whole issue and showed her the balance with joy. She teased me and said that the balance wouldn't be there even for twenty four hours as we had lots of debts and loans to be paid the following day. But I told her strongly that I wouldn't spend a pie not only the following day but also for another day or two.Let all debts and loans wait for a couple of days to be cleared
After I decided my resolution for today I started my daily chores. As I was doing my daily practice of yoga my son fifteen years old came to me and said , "papa give me two hundred rupees. I have to buy a gift for my friend as today is his birthday" I said hurriedly you don't have to give such a costly gift. Instead you can take a plant from our balcony and gift it. It looks innovative and nature loving. "Papa. You don't know anything. My friend will think that I am mean. Please papa give me money I have to go and buy a gift " Bhaiya get me a good set of bangles and earings which match the dress I am going to wear for the party." said my daughter coming out from the bedroom. I was wondering how to overcome the situation. My wife smiled and came to my rescue. Your Papa is not going to spend money today. So take the money you need from your kiddy bank and later I will give you." "But all that is also my money. We should not spend that also. "I said little gloomy. "See if we want to fast we should alone fast . We should not force others with our ideas "my wife said. rather irritated." Let them spend their savings." she said and her words were final.
After that my morning went very peacefully and by tea time the problem reappeared. As. I was having tea my servant maid came and asked for salary. "We usually give you money on 5 or 6 of the month . Why are asking for it today." I groaned. "Sir. Iam going to my home town to attend a marriage. I need money for my expenses."she said. "Never mind you come tomorrow. I will arrange for it. Today I can't help you". I said. "But sir I am leaving tomorrow early morning. Please give me today." She said almost pleading. I looked helpless at my wife who was watching us. Again she had a ready made answer for this problem. "Leela come at six in the evening I will give you money. She said añd sent her. I looked questioningly at her. She understood my thoughts and said " Our tenant told that he will give me the rent at five. so I told our maid to come at six." I breathed happily on hearing this. Atleast I need not spend money from my pocket.
At 8 inthe night I faced the same problem for the third time. My father rang up and said that he along with my mother and sister were waiting in the railway station . They couldn't find an auto and hence asked me to bring them home. My wife said " book a cab and they willcome safely. But I refused, saying " ' It is matter of just one hour and the distance is barely fifteen kiometers. The cab will charge atleast five hundred rupees. I will go in my vehicle and bring them home. You get the dinner ready by the timewe return." So saying I started for the railway station. The __'after that story I hate to tell but I have to reveal the sad part that traffic police stopped me at a signal and charged me with a fine of Two thousand for not wearing seat belt and over speed. Not only that there were previous challans that I had not paid for the past six months such crossing the red signal, goingin prohibited one way.... all amonting to a total of almost five thousand. The police seized my keys and said that they would return only after clearing all the fines.!! Soo sad .That was the end of my "spenting"😥
Saturday, 28 November 2020
SPENTING
Sunday, 26 April 2020
Adjustment
. ADJUSTMENT
" What is this? You know that I dont like milk bread. Yet you have made sandwich out of it as breakfast. ". grumbled Rajan.
"Sorry dear . There is no brown bread in our grocery shop. Please adjust for today". said Madhu gently. There was no option. Her voice though gentle was determined. This was one thing with Madhu. She did things in her own way not bothered about others. . She could have easily got brown bread from another grocery shop if she wanted. But instead she went for milk bread. It was her nature. She did what she determined....
. Rajan half heartedly completed his breakfast and got ready for his office. "Madhu Madhu..... What is this ? The shirt you have kept here doesnt have a button . Give me another Its getting late."
" Dont worry dear I willget it switched in a second. "
" There isnt enough time. I have to rush. "said Rajan.
"See dear. I will stich it in no time. No other shirt is ready to wear now. Three of them have gone for washing and two for ironing.
Rajan knew that he had many more but she had decided and it was final.His daughter eighteen years old was watching him with sparkling eyes .She was curious to know who would win in such fights though she was very definite about the answer. He did not argue anymore but left for his work.
It was eight in the night. Rajan was sitting in the balcony looking at the sky. The moon seemed to be full with brightness and the night pleasant and peaceful. "Papa. Here is your pre dinner soup. "Siri. Rajan's. daughter came upstairs to give him the soup . "What ..your mother has given me loki soup. She knows that I hate it. Rajan said groaningly. "Papa you cannot do anything. You are. helpless before mummy. Why are you afraid of her? ."Siri smiled teasingly. Rajan smiled at her and sat in the chair. He started drinking it. "Papa you pour it in the plant if you dont like it . Mama is not going to be know. ". Rajan looked at her and said No Siri. I wil have it. "But Papa why should you take it when you dont like it. ""Because it is good for my heart. You know that I had two stunts placed in my heart. This soup prevents further blocks. It is for my good that she forces such things on me. She is always worried about me. See Siri medicines are bitter. But a mother gives them to her child if he is unwell. It doesnot mean that she hates them. You know Siri ours is love marriage. Your grand parents were against me. She left all her relations ,wealth and her luxurious life for me. I had nothing then. Not even a decent job. She adjusted herself to my atmosphere. When you were born nobody came to her help. I was busy earning money. She adjusted in raising you. When I was financially broken she helped me with her savings and jewels. You should know that your mother is very patient. She takes care of every single matter of me. I love her so much that I donot mind her restrictions. I am ready to adjust. Ofcourse sometimes I go crazy and fight with her. But she nevers gives back. She does things that are good for me confidently without comprimising. Siri you should know that. adjustment is the best medicine for any problem in couple's life" Rajan completed his soup and started downstairs.
Tuesday, 17 September 2019
Polly makes friends
Polly the doll was feeling very lonely. Minne had put it on shelf and gone to school. There was no other doll on that shell and all there were books and magazines. Polly didnot like reading and felt sleepy at the sight of them. She hopped from the shelf and reached the window.She tried to squeeze through it but could not.So She peeped out of it and saw a sparrow playing in the branches of the nearby tree. 'How lucky the sparrow is' it thought only if Minne would come and take her out . She would also have a lovely time. Suddenly a cat came from behind the sparrow and tried to catch it. Polly shouted to the sparrow and alerted it. The sparrow understood the danger and flew high. The cat went away disappointed.
The sparrow flew inside through the window and thanked Polly for saving it. Polly requested the sparrow to give it company till Minne returned from school. The sparrow agreed and both of them had a great time. From that day they both became great friends
The heart of life ___Rivers
Oh look at the helpless river dear
Was flowing pure long ago
But now dry dark and foul smelling I fear
All because of our fault and ego
Let's not pollute it with whatever no matter
Plastic,wastes , chemical s or garbage
Let's not waste even a drop of water
So precious and is needed at all ages
Let's try and make it shine
Like it flowed long ago
Then our life will be healthy and fine
Like our ancestors who lived long ago
Monday, 25 December 2017
Beauty!. Where is it?
"I am not beautiful. I have a flat nose, protruding teeth and popping eyes. I am dark and short. Nobody likes me. " thought Dimple sadly. Her parents had gone to work and she was sitting alone under the shade of a big tree in front of her house. "Only if the parrot gives me her sharp beak ,I would look a little beautiful" she thought when she saw a parrot on the tree branch.
"Dear Parrot you have got beautiful green colour body and pretty beak. Can you please lend me your beauty. I am ugly and nobody wants to play with me. I feel lonely." she asked.
". Sorry dear. I cannot help you. This colour and beak are given by God and I cannot give this to you. I am busy collecting fruits for my children. I have to hurry" said Polly the parrot. "Shall I help you to collect fruits" asked Dimple. " Yes if you can. Collect some fruits and put them in my basket. "said Polly. So Dimple helped Polly and in few minutes her basket was full and Polly flew away. Again Dimple felt lonely and sad. After a few minutes Bunny the rabbit came that way He saw Dimple and asked her the reason for her sadness. She told him about her wish and asked him if he could help him. " You look so beautiful in that snow white coat. Your ears are so pretty and the way you hop and jump is loved by all. " said Dimple. " What you say is true but I cannot help you. I am born naturally like this . How can I give them to you? Sorry I have to go. I am hungry . I need to search for carrots. I cannot play with you now" Hearing this Dimple took two carrots from her lunch bag and gave them to Bunny ." Thank you":saying Bunny hopped and went.
Oogly the wise owl was watching this from the top of the tree. He flew down to Dimple and said "Dimple dear. You are so kind and generous . Your heart is very beautiful. You have got beautiful dimples in your cheeks. Keep smiling always and you will be the most lovable person ." Dimple smiled and thanked Oogly. Seeing her smile a butterfly flew near Dimple and said " you look as beautiful as a rose. Can I be your friend and rest on your shoulders?" Dimple felt very happy for the first time.
Saturday, 22 July 2017
Tribute to teachers
YOU ARE THE STARS VERY NEAR
RADIATING LIGHT OF WISDOM TO ALL AROUND
YOU ARE THE FLOWER VERY DEAR
SPREADING THE PEACE FRAGRANCE ON ALL GROUNDS
YOU ARE WATERS OF THE RIVER
WASHING OUR MISTAKES IN YOUR FLOW
YOU ARE THE PLEASANT BREEZE IN SUMMER
COMFORTING US DURING TOUGH BLOWS
YOU ARE THE BOOK --VERY RARE
GIVING SOLUTIONS TO PROBLEMS IN LIFE
YOU ARE THE PERSON WHO CARES,
ACCEPTS US FROM THE AGE OF FIVE
DEAR TEACHERS WITHOUT YOU WE ARE ZERO
YOU TRANSFORM US INTO HERO
Thursday, 20 July 2017
PRIZE
'' Don't worry dear. You had done your best. Might be they deserve it more than you. you can always try again ."Mother tried to comfort her.
"But mummy . I deserve my fruits for the pains I had taken" said Minnu with teary eyes.
"Sure . But might be you may have to wait a little longer. "Minnu looked definitely upset. She didnot feel like eating her lunch that day. Her father had got her a new story book as a gift, her grand mother gave her a pretty sweater,knitted by her, her mother made her a delicious cake for her . But she was not happy. She was continuously thinking of the defeat in the elocution the whole day and went to bed sadly.
'' Minnu .... Minnu ...some one has come to see you. '' Minnu's brother Bittu called her from the garden while she was getting ready to school. Minnu uninterested went out to see who it was. It was Chacha the school gardener. He had a rose plant in his hand.
'' Minnu your speech was very effective. you spoke very well on respecting and listening to parents. My son never used to listen to me and always fought with me. His mother was also always upset with him. In fact he wanted to send us to aged home. But yesterday after hearing your speech in our school he has changed . The way you spoke about parents sacrifices in bringing up the children has really melted him. Thank you.Minnu. Here is a small gift for your lovely speech. '' saying so he gave the rose plant to her. Minnu's eyes were filed with tears . Mamma I got my prize atlast. '' happily she ran to her mother.
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